Patsy Mennuti, a 53-year-old cougar from Florida, US, believes younger men are more likely to experiment in the bedroom with older women because it ‘feels safer’
A proud cougar has shared a "suprising thing" she learned when she started dating men 30 years younger than her.
Patsy Mennuti is a 53-year-old woman who often shares videos about her experiences dating men in her 20s and 30s. The Florida-based OnlyFans star, known online as 'hellacougar', even offers dating advice for those wanting to become cougars or men seeking a 'cubbie' arrangement.
But part of this is sharing the reality of dating someone less experienced, including being open to experimenting more in the bedroom.
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In the video, which has gained more than 2,400 likes, she explained: "One of the most surprising aspects of being a 53-year-old cougar sleeping with men in their 20s and 30s has been their willingness to explore things with women my age that they would never consider exploring with women their own age."
She went on to explain that she had a few theories as to why young men enjoy experimenting with her. The main thing being that they are "curious" and that "older women bring experience to the table."
"Younger men look for older women for this experience," she added. "The most important aspect here, I believe, is that younger men feel safe with older women in terms of their exploration and adventuring if you will. This is not a knock against younger women. Please don't take it that way."
Patsi claimed that some of the men she came to had been laughed at or mocked for things they wanted to try in the bedroom. Or that, they were concerned that younger women may know their friendship group or might share their private fantasies online.
But Patsy said: "There's nobody I can go tell some scandalous piece of information to, um, it's just really like a friend with benefits or a one-off kind of a thing. And younger men feel safe with this."
TikTok users were left stunned by the clip as they took to the comments to share their thoughts. One user said: "This is so true. Acceptance comes with maturity."
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Another added: "Fr! Older women..more chill.. more open..we try to keep up with them. Firecrackers still," while a third commented: "Interesting but I feel younger guys are probably not in it for the long haul older guys want more."
Meanwhile, a fourth argued: "I think it's more out of desperation. The few times I met up with a cougar, it's because I couldn't get someone my age that night."
However, Patsy replied: "Yeh I’m pretty good at sniffing that s**t out so I don’t have to deal with that level of moron who likes to outwardly brag about disrespecting women."
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